tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2716203536139300387.post7839515573805035323..comments2023-12-18T02:19:29.580-08:00Comments on Coach Your Mind: Let Me Ask You Why?Dayne Gingrichhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00670846587449384876noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2716203536139300387.post-78583212233057181872009-10-28T22:30:46.330-07:002009-10-28T22:30:46.330-07:00Wow, I couldn't agree more! Very well said, an...Wow, I couldn't agree more! Very well said, and it's true we too often do not ask the right questions and very rarely come up with the right answers. Love you blog, I'm now following you!<br /><br />If you like, you can see mine at http://beautifuldreamersdiary.blogspot.com/Curvy Mummyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17618062139264477518noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2716203536139300387.post-74984587506905123552009-10-28T18:06:44.323-07:002009-10-28T18:06:44.323-07:00I guess the reason to ask why is to keep it from h...I guess the reason to ask why is to keep it from happening again, or to heal it. Sometimes it seems good to just go forward and not delve into why.Sandra Wilkeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06640562716913535824noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2716203536139300387.post-79347028764537202422009-10-27T18:13:21.980-07:002009-10-27T18:13:21.980-07:00I definitely told him what the true problem was, a...I definitely told him what the true problem was, and as always, he had a difficult grasping it all. Instincts tell us that answer (A) HAS to come from problem (B).<br /><br />It takes a deeper kind of thinking to understand answer (A) could actually be from problem (Y). <br /><br />He's working on it, though... as we all are, right?Dayne Gingrichhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00670846587449384876noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2716203536139300387.post-51408080612340597642009-10-27T17:24:59.381-07:002009-10-27T17:24:59.381-07:00So did you share this info with him or did you let...So did you share this info with him or did you let him come to the realization on his own? Just curious:-)<br /><br />I think it's always important to ask why, even when you don't find an answer.spldbchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05505641654468777964noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2716203536139300387.post-57279190197789434322009-10-26T17:26:58.780-07:002009-10-26T17:26:58.780-07:00Well said Dayne... Go back to the beginning to fin...Well said Dayne... Go back to the beginning to find the root of the problem, simple concept yet so hard to do sometimes. Great post as always ; )Midnight Whispererhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17505831379326900963noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2716203536139300387.post-12584661112377380372009-10-26T15:36:28.869-07:002009-10-26T15:36:28.869-07:00Definitely some food for thought. Sure does make ...Definitely some food for thought. Sure does make me think a bit more about how one person can rise to the challenge while the next person with just as much ability fails....Bendigohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12778410776622770346noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2716203536139300387.post-11555460286132679322009-10-26T11:06:48.669-07:002009-10-26T11:06:48.669-07:00hmmm i think all cleveland sports teams should rea...hmmm i think all cleveland sports teams should read this and maybe they could tell us fans why they always choke in the clutchSPEAKING FROM THE CRIBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00875665332513211981noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2716203536139300387.post-1488213430728974392009-10-26T04:11:01.156-07:002009-10-26T04:11:01.156-07:00Coach Dayne,
nab I shoulda read this before puttin...Coach Dayne,<br />nab I shoulda read this before puttin Santa on the roof.<br />BIG HUGS<br />Bess says hiplainolebobhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08899219272697255107noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2716203536139300387.post-22042105625377440182009-10-25T21:15:41.928-07:002009-10-25T21:15:41.928-07:00Dayne....good point. I've often choked in pre...Dayne....good point. I've often choked in pressure situations because my mind forces my body to make the errors. On a double play, I see the runner coming into 2nd and make an errant throw to first. With the game on the line and down by a run in the last inning with runners on base, I'm passive instead of aggressive for fear of making that final out. It isn't my body that's making the mistakes (although it is) but my mind that allows it to happen.<br /><br />The same things in relationships. I know there are "why's" here. Sometimes I just don't want to ask them.<br /><br />Nice reminder.Mattyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13979949404266325705noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2716203536139300387.post-19309237766419174022009-10-25T21:12:54.805-07:002009-10-25T21:12:54.805-07:00I kept asking why am I like this now.
What did I ...I kept asking why am I like this now. <br />What did I do wrong? <br />How do I get better. <br />Now I'm asking what can I do right and why do I worry about getting better. <br />Your last part, "we've been trained" and "backward steps".. My parents taught me to be patient and do the best I can, and don't worry about winning or losing just have fun doing it. If its tennis, working or day to day living, it's all a game and in the end, everyone wins.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com