Let's just be real - let's take off the gloves ...
If you're sick and tired of where you are, change it! No more whining, no more excuses ... do something about it. You deserve it, your family deserves it, and the people watching you achieve it (who you may not know are watching) deserve to be shown it can be done!
Go to bed earlier, wake up earlier, dedicate your mind and body to attaining it. You don't know how long it'll take or how many hours you'll have to grind ... you simply know it WILL be yours.
Decide. Visualize. Work. Win.